My husband decided to marry me on the sound advice of a fortune cookie.  I’m not making this up.  Let me start from the beginning.  When Wayne asked me to marry him I didn’t give him the chance to change his mind.  We set the date and within the month, I had my wedding dress picked out, mom and dad had the down payment on the rental hall, and the invitations were ordered.  Then Wayne decided to change jobs, taking a substantial cut in pay.  He wasn’t sure he could make it financially and taking on the responsibility of a wife made him think twice.  With his heart on his sleeve he asked me if I’d be willing to put off the wedding for a year. My husband decided to marry me on the sound advice of a fortune cookie. I’m not making this up. Let me start from the beginning. When Wayne asked me to marry him I didn’t give him the chance to change his mind. We set the date and within the month, I had my wedding dress picked out, mom and dad had the down payment on the rental hall, and the invitations were ordered. Then Wayne decided to change jobs, taking a substantial cut in pay. He wasn’t sure he could make it financially and taking on the responsibility of a wife made him think twice. With his heart on his sleeve he asked me if I’d be willing to put off the wedding for a year. Read the full blog.